I will find healing. I will no longer suffer in silence as I cope with my husband's pornography addiction.
Friday, July 6, 2012
Step 3
This is a short and sweet post all about Step 3 & my Ah Ha moment about Step 3 today. I have been feeling like I have been bouncing between Step 1 & 2 a lot wondering if I was ready for Step 3. I felt I need to move ahead just for the fact that I really felt I needed to conquer Steps 4 & 5 for some much needed peace. I was reading over the Steps again today and Ah Ha ! I realized as I read Step 3 - it said nothing about turning my will over to Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ - it just said DECIDE to turn my will over. The actual process of turning over our will, at least in my mind, happens as we continue to exercise faith & practice the Steps that follow. It is in doing the Steps that follow Step 3 that we TURN OVER our will & start trusting in His will for us.
Labels:
our will,
Step 3,
The Lord's will
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
Good realization! I'm always amazed at how little I have too do, and how much God takes care of. It really is all about trust.
ReplyDeleteI think the word 'willing' is one of the most amazing words in recovery work.
ReplyDeleteIt shows up again later in Step 8. ;)